Ben Ray Upright, known affectionately as Ben to his friends and family, passed away peacefully on March 2, 2024, in Crescent City, California. Born on July 10, 1952, in Statesville, North Carolina, Ben's life was a testament to the joy of simplicity, the warmth of family, and the value of a good laugh.
The son of the late Hallie and Author Upright, and the brother to his late siblings Bobby, Eli, and Nancy, Ben was a beacon of resilience and strength. Despite the loss of his parents and siblings, Ben's loving spirit never waned. He is survived by his devoted wife Sharla, his loving daughters Tammy Lyons and Cindy Trone, their husbands Jake Lyons and Derek Trone, and his cherished grandchildren Casey, Jacob, Brock, Brennon, and Bryson. Ben's legacy of love and laughter continues to live on through his brother Herman and his wife Nancy Upright, his sister Brenda Wilson, and numerous nieces and nephews who were all touched by his generosity and humor.
Ben's career as a heavy equipment operator and residential handyman was marked by the same dedication and hard work that he applied to every aspect of his life. Known for his skillful hands and problem-solving mind, he made a lasting impact on the communities he served through his work. His colleagues and those within his professional circle will remember him as a man who could always be relied upon, a mentor who offered guidance, and a friend who provided unwavering support.
Beyond his professional life, Ben was a man of many interests. He took particular joy in making salsa, a hobby that often found him surrounded by friends and family eager to sample his latest creation. His recipe was a closely guarded secret, but his willingness to share the fruits of his labor was limitless. Fishing was another passion—Ben could often be found with a fishing rod in hand, patiently waiting for the next big catch. Those tranquil moments by the water were some of his most treasured.
To say that Ben was funny would be an understatement. His quick wit and infectious laughter could light up a room and ease the heaviest of hearts. He was generous to a fault, never hesitating to give of himself to those in need. Above all, Ben was loving. His embrace was a safe haven, his words a source of comfort, and his presence a constant reminder of what it means to cherish those around us.
As we bid farewell to Ben, we celebrate a life lived to the fullest. His stories will continue to be told, his jokes will be repeated, and his kindness will be emulated. In his memory, we smile, we embrace, and we love. Ben Ray Upright will be dearly missed, but the impact he made on this world and the love he shared will never be forgotten.
A private service will be held to honor Ben's life, where family and friends will gather to share memories and say their goodbyes. In keeping with Ben's spirit, let us each find a way to honor his memory in our daily lives—whether it be through a kind gesture, a hearty laugh, or a moment spent in the great outdoors. Let us live as Ben did, with open hearts and open arms, always ready to make the world a brighter place.